February 20, 2013 


Issue 135

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This is so very fitting for my February's RELATIONSHIP Made  POSITIVE theme. How important are your relationships and what can you do to make them even better?


I want to share what Michelle Sedas wrote for WalkTheTalk.com, "Brian Tracy said, "Eighty percent of life's satisfaction comes from meaningful relationships." Think about it. When you look back at the end of your life what will really matter?

Five words: the quality of your relationships


So here's the question: If your relationships are the most important part of your life, what are you doing to make them all they can be?" 


 Excerpted from The 100/0 Principle

The 100/0 Principle


How The 100/0 Principle Works


What is the most effective way to create and sustain great relationships with others? It's The 100/0 Principle: You take full responsibility (the 100) for the relationship, expecting nothing (the 0) in return. Implementing The 100/0 Principle is not natural for most of us. It takes real commitment to the relationship and a good dose of self-discipline to think, act and give 100 percent. The 100/0 Principle applies to those people in your life where the relationships are too important to react automatically or judgmentally. Each of us must determine the relationships to which this principle should apply. For most of us, it applies to work associates, customers, suppliers, family and friends.


STEP 1: Determine what you can do to make the relationship work...then do it. Demonstrate respect and kindness to the other person, whether he/she deserves it or not.


STEP 2: Do not expect anything in return. Zero, zip, nada.


STEP 3: Do not allow anything the other person says or does (no matter how annoying!) to affect you. In other words, don't take the bait.


STEP 4: Be persistent with your graciousness and kindness. Often we give up too soon, especially when others don't respond in kind. Remember to expect nothing in return.


Principle Paradox

This may strike you as strange, but here's the paradox: When you take authentic responsibility for a relationship, more often than not the other person quickly chooses to take responsibility as well. Consequently, the 100/0 relationship quickly transforms into something approaching 100/100. When that occurs, true breakthroughs happen for the individuals involved, their teams, their organizations and their families.



MARCH'S Newsletters............Shoveling Out, Finding Your Authenticity






I'm putting together 5 Interactive Tele-Workshops for this Spring - end of March, April

Sessions- ONE HOUR EACH WEEK - I will provide Conference Call number and PIN

Up Coming Workshops:

Got clutter? Emotional, Physical or Emotional?

Here you go!!!

Want your life to be more organized, simplified with less stuff around you or flying around in your head?

Early Registration $99 for 4 sessions, After March 17, $125 for 4 sessions

  1. Dealing with and Removing Mental Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  2. Too Much Stuff, What Stays and What Goes, Physical Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  3. This Hurts, Emotional Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  4. OMG, Get Rid of This!, Paper and Digital Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  5. Transitions, the Next Step In Life, 4 sessions am and pm

Who's in?

Which one would you like to sign up for?

Let me know your interest and time and email me at




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Sallie's TV Interviews


This month of February, I'm giving you tips, resources and tools to help you be the best you can be...~Listen in...Sallie's interview with James Rick highlighting "How to Declutter from the Inside Out"...Click here to listen 



Sallie's latest TV Interview with "SIMPLY TALKING SHOW",  on December 4, 2012.

Title:  IF I'M SO SMART, WHY DO I HAVE THIS CLUTTER?  (The 3 forms:  Mental, Phsical and Emotional and how it affects us all.)

Go to: Check it out here




Interviews with Sallie


I want to thank Mal Duane author of Alpha Chick  for our wonderful conversation on her series Positive Mental Shift. Transformation and more...Change can be hard, but letting go is necessary when wanting to move forward. Don't miss more of her tele-series with incredible experts. http://bit.ly/positiveshift



Heading to Fairing Way, Weymouth, MA (www.fairingway.org) on February 28 to speak to an audience about downsizing and letting go of their mental, physical and emotional clutter. 


Location: Holiday Inn - Ballroom

Rockland, MA




Feel free to email Rita Briggs to register: RBriggs@fairingway.org


Depression, the Unedited Version


Sallie Felton, the queen of de-clutter keeps you on your toes with this heartfelt discussion of honoring your own voice and living with depression.

1.   You can't change anybody unless they are willing to take the risk and walk the path.

2.   We must nurture ourselves first and replenish our souls to be the best we can be in a relationship

3.   Journaling is putting your voice on paper and honoring your truth

BE INSPIRED! Listen to her free replay and claim her free gift!


Click here to enjoy her inspiring REPLAY



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Sallie Felton, CMC, PCC

Life Coach/Transition Specialist

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