February 27, 2013 

 

Issue 136

 
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SALLIE'S STORY

Wow... where did February go??? This is the last theme week entitled: RELATIONSHIPS MADE POSITIVE.

 

"To carry each other is not a burden at all but a kind of privilege"         

~Bono

 

 

For the past two weeks I have witnessed the struggle, frustration and total exasperation between family members wanting to help a NEWLY injured relative reluctant to be cared for.

 

This has been a theme I have heard more than once and one which keeps rearing its head. Phrases like, "Don't want to be a burden", "I don't want

any help" and "I can do it myself" come to mind.

 

Why is it we're eager to help others, but not ask for what we need? To answer that question, let's take a good look in the mirror. Who's staring back at you?

Ask yourself, "What is it about asking for help that's holding ME back?"

Which resonated with you?

  1. I'm obligated to help them in return.
  2. Don't have the time.
  3. Don't want to be a burden.
  4. I'm not worthy of the care.
  5. Don't want to come across that I can't handle x, y, z....
  6. Don't want to be perceived as "failing".
  7. Don't want people to know how bad it is.
  8. Won't be done the way I want it to be done, have to redo it.

If we don't ask, no one will know we need help; we are not mind readers. What's one area in your life you want extra help with? Physical assistance, childcare, laundry, work load, chores, housework...the list could be endless. Here is the secret! You have a CHOICE!!!! And it's all yours! You can choose to be stressed, overwhelmed and ride the rollercoaster or you can choose to ask. But you have to be willing to let go of expectation and perfection. Someone may not set the table, do the dishes, clean the house exactly as you wish, but here's the point...IS THE TASK GETTING DONE? OR is your health getting better because of the care of others? Answer: YES, yes, yes!!!

Remember, as you want to help others, so they want to help you! Everyone wants to feel needed. So take the risk and ask. Smile and say thank you; you might be pleasantly surprised.

 

"The most important thing in life is to learn how

to give out love,and to let it come in." 

~Morrie Schwartz

 

   

KEEPING YOU IN THE LOOP

 

YOU SPOKE, I LISTENED...

 

I'm putting together 5 Interactive Tele-Workshops for this Spring - end of March, April

Sessions- ONE HOUR EACH WEEK - I will provide Conference Call number and PIN

Up Coming Workshops:

Got clutter? Emotional, Physical or Emotional?

Here you go!!!

Want your life to be more organized, simplified with less stuff around you or flying around in your head?

Early Registration $99 for 4 sessions, After March 17, $125 for 4 sessions

  1. Dealing with and Removing Mental Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  2. Too Much Stuff, What Stays and What Goes, Physical Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  3. This Hurts, Emotional Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  4. OMG, Get Rid of This!, Paper and Digital Clutter 4 sessions am and pm
  5. Transitions, the Next Step In Life, 4 sessions am and pm

Who's in?

Which one would you like to sign up for?

Let me know your interest and time and email me at

 

WHAT'S THE LATEST?

 

Coach in a Box

Coach in a Box  

My Newest Product: Ready to de-clutter your own life? Now you can! You will be guided step-by-step through all the stages of de-cluttering the physical, mental, and emotional areas of your life.

 

Check it out here: Coach in a Box

 

 

LIGHTS, CAMERA, WE'RE ON  

 

Sallie's TV Interviews

 

This month of February, I'm giving you tips, resources and tools to help you be the best you can be...~Listen in...Sallie's interview with James Rick highlighting "How to Declutter from the Inside Out"...Click here to listen 

 

 

Sallie's latest TV Interview with "SIMPLY TALKING SHOW",  on December 4, 2012.

Title:  IF I'M SO SMART, WHY DO I HAVE THIS CLUTTER?  (The 3 forms:  Mental, Phsical and Emotional and how it affects us all.)

Go to: Check it out here

  

 

 

Interviews with Sallie

 

I want to thank Mal Duane author of Alpha Chick  for our wonderful conversation on her series Positive Mental Shift. Transformation and more...Change can be hard, but letting go is necessary when wanting to move forward. Don't miss more of her tele-series with incredible experts. http://bit.ly/positiveshift

  

  

Heading to Fairing Way, Weymouth, MA (www.fairingway.org) on February 28 to speak to an audience about downsizing and letting go of their mental, physical and emotional clutter. 

  

Location: Holiday Inn - Ballroom

Rockland, MA

  

  http://www.holidayinn.com/hotels/us/en/rockland/rklma/hoteldetail 

 

Feel free to email Rita Briggs to register: RBriggs@fairingway.org

 

Depression, the Unedited Version

  

Sallie Felton, the queen of de-clutter keeps you on your toes with this heartfelt discussion of honoring your own voice and living with depression.

 
1.   You can't change anybody unless they are willing to take the risk and walk the path.

2.   We must nurture ourselves first and replenish our souls to be the best we can be in a relationship

3.   Journaling is putting your voice on paper and honoring your truth
 

BE INSPIRED! Listen to her free replay and claim her free gift!

 

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"What would it feel like if your life were exactly the way you wanted it to be?" Email me for a free consult.

 

Sincerely,

Sallie

 

Sallie Felton, CMC, PCC

Life Coach/Transition Specialist

International Talk Radio Host

#1 Bestselling Author, Motivational Speaker

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